The Husband I Never Knew

While the names and some circumstances have been changed to protect the victims and families, this story is written to honor them and shed light on any clues that may help people spot potential molesters before they harm another child. Following “Kari’s” decision to tell their story, she discussed the ramifications with her (by then) ex-husband, “Matt,” following his release from prison. She and some other family members felt his perspective would lend deeper insight for the protection of other children – if he would agree to an interview. He did, and it is contained – in all of its raw tragedy – within these pages. He was broken and open to exposing his deepest shame if it could in any way dissuade anyone else from targeting a child.